Fun class activity:
We use size ($|B|$) and element inclusion ($j \in A$) notation for sequences, too. However, there is a difference between sets and sequences in terms of size: $|\{1, 1, 1, 1\}| = 1$ because we just repeat the same set element, while $|\langle1, 1, 1, 1\rangle| = 4$ since every term has a unique position in the sequence and is, therefore, meaningful (it isn't just repetition.)